Choose Your Maximum
Agree the largest total you would feel comfortable spending without relying on uncertain income or leaving yourselves financially stretched.
A good wedding budget is not about spending as little—or as much—as possible. It is about choosing a figure that feels comfortable and using it on the things that matter most to you.
Decide what you can genuinely afford before looking at what everyone else appears to spend.
Download three printer-friendly A4 sheets: a Wedding Budget Planner, Supplier Payment Schedule and Often-Forgotten Costs Checklist.
View all free wedding printables →Start with the total amount available. Then protect your priorities before dividing the rest between the other parts of the day.
Agree the largest total you would feel comfortable spending without relying on uncertain income or leaving yourselves financially stretched.
If relatives have offered to help, confirm the amount and whether it is a gift or intended for a particular part of the wedding.
Set aside part of the total for price changes, delivery charges, alterations and the little extras that appear later.
Allocate sensible amounts to your three most important parts of the wedding before spreading the remainder across everything else.
These broad ranges are only conversation starters. Move the figures around to reflect your venue, guest numbers and priorities.
The percentages overlap because every wedding is different. They are prompts, not a total you must follow.
Add an estimated amount now and replace it with the confirmed cost when each supplier is booked.
| Category | Estimated | Confirmed | Paid | Remaining |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Venue, ceremony, food and drink | £ | £ | £ | £ |
| Photography and videography | £ | £ | £ | £ |
| Wedding outfits and alterations | £ | £ | £ | £ |
| Flowers, cake and decorations | £ | £ | £ | £ |
| Entertainment and music | £ | £ | £ | £ |
| Transport and accommodation | £ | £ | £ | £ |
| Stationery, gifts and extras | £ | £ | £ | £ |
| Total | £ | £ | £ | £ |
Individually they may look modest, but together they can make a noticeable difference.
A quoted total is only part of the picture. Record each deposit, instalment and final balance, along with the date it must be paid. Keep contracts and payment confirmations together.